Sexual abuse and violence is any behaviour thought to be of a sexual nature which is unwanted, take place without consent and cause distress. It can happen to anyone, regardless of age, gender, or background, and can involve someone the victim knows.
Sexual abuse and violence can be physical, psychological, verbal or online and can also include, but is not limited to:
Rape, child sexual abuse, sexual assault, sexual abuse (this includes being pressurised or coerced into sexual activity you do not want to do), sexual exploitation, image-based sexual abuse (non-consensual creation and/or distribution of private, sexual images and videos), grooming for sexual purposes, female genital mutilation, sexual harassment (both online and offline). (Ministry of Justice, published, 5 July 2022)
Understanding sexual abuse as a form of domestic abuse
Sexual abuse within a domestic setting involves any non-consensual sexual activity between intimate partners. This can include:
- Marital rape: Forcing a partner to engage in sexual acts without their consent.
- Sexual coercion: Manipulating or pressuring a partner into sexual activity.
- Degrading treatment: Treating a partner in a sexually demeaning manner.
- Control over reproductive health: Forcing a partner to become pregnant or to terminate a pregnancy against their will.
Sexual abuse in a domestic setting is often about exerting power and control over the victim, and it can have severe emotional and psychological impacts.
If you have suffered sexual abuse or sexual violence at any time, please know you are not to blame in any way and it is not your fault. Taking the first step in reaching out for help can be difficult but please know there are people ready to listen and help. Reaching out to local support services can be the first step in ensuring your safety and getting help.