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Domestic Abuse in LGBT+ communities

February is LGBT+ History Month, a month-long celebration of the history and achievements of the lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender community, as well as the broader gay rights and civil rights movements. The primary goals of this month are to promote equality and diversity.

Despite high levels of domestic abuse in LGBT+ communities, evidence demonstrates that LGBT+ victims are unlikely to access help and support. Current studies estimate that 60% to 80% of LGBT+ victims have never reported incidents to the police or attempted to find advice or protection from services (Galop).

Unique challenges

Abuse in LGBT+ relationships can take many forms, including physical, emotional, sexual, and financial abuse. Unique forms of abuse may involve threats to “out” someone (revealing someone’s LBGT+ identity) to their family, employer, or community, manipulation of internalised homophobia or transphobia, and withholding of medication or access to healthcare.

Furthermore, there are also some unique challenges for the older LGBT+ community. View the Dewis Choice ‘Do You See Me?’ Short film which provides insight into domestic abuse from the ‘lived experiences’ of older people.

Barriers to seeking help

Some of the barriers that LGBT+ individuals may face when seeking help include fear of discrimination, internalised stigma, and concerns about being outed. There may also be assumptions that services aren’t for them or a fear of being misunderstood or discriminated against.

Further learning

Domestic abuse in the LGBT+ community requires increased awareness and targeted support. Understanding the unique challenges faced by LGBT+ individuals and providing inclusive resources, can significantly increase the confidence of LGBT+ victims to seek help and report abuse.

For further learning about domestic abuse and the LGBTQ+ community access the LGBTQ+ Community & Domestic Abuse Basic Awareness E-learning package.

The OutHouse is a Colchester based registered charity, providing opportunities for LGBTQ+ people in Essex. Their mission is to develop and promote a sustainable, fair and equal society where all lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender people can achieve their full potential.  They also offer module-based learning events on a variety of LGBTQ+ topics.

Services that can help

If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic abuse within the LGBT community, there are organisations that provide specialised support and resources.

Local

Compass is the domestic abuse line for Essex, and you can call them on 0330 333 7 444 or visit their website.

The OutHouse  – Dedicated to serving all LGBTQ+ individuals and committed to providing a safe and supportive space for you to find your community

National

Galop & The National Domestic Abuse Helpline

LGBT Foundation

IDAS (Independent Domestic Abuse Services – LGBTQ+ victims